Building trust with others in human society involves kindness, respecting rules, and gentle interactions.
However, gaining trust from horses requires a different approach. Here, we introduce key points for earning a horse’s trust without even riding them.
Approaching Horses Correctly
If you want to be friendly and trustworthy to horses, it’s essential to approach them correctly. Since horses are naturally timid animals, approach them in a way that makes them feel secure.
Where to Approach?
Humans are often startled when someone suddenly comes near. Horses have a wide field of vision of about 350 degrees, but if they sense something behind them in their blind spots, they can become frightened. Some horses also fear humans and animals coming from the front. The best approach for any horse is from the side.
Try Speaking
Just as greeting someone starts communication between humans, speaking to horses is also an effective way to communicate. Since horses are trained and handled with regular vocal cues, calling out when approaching is helpful. Use a calm, low tone like “Hey there” or call their name. If the horse reacts calmly and seems relaxed, continue approaching while talking. It’s important to inform the horse of your presence and draw their attention.
Enter Their Field of Vision
When approaching, do so slowly, showing your presence and behaving calmly. If you must approach from behind the horse’s blind spot, stand at an angle behind and speak to alert them. If it’s difficult, ask staff for assistance. Confidence and calmness prevent startling the horse and protect your safety. Avoid showing signs of anxiety or hesitation—horses are very sensitive to human emotions, and trust is hard to gain if you seem uncertain.
Once You’re Close
When close, gently stroke the horse’s shoulder or let them smell your hand to recognize you. Remember, horses are accustomed to being handled from their left side, so always approach from that side to avoid confusion or anxiety.
Grooming and Stall Cleaning
Regular grooming and cleaning the stall help build trust. Taking care of the horse’s body after exercise and cleaning their living space shows appreciation, making the horse feel comfortable and trusting you more.
Grooming as Bonding
Brushing and bathing are opportunities for physical interaction and communication. These activities are relaxing for the horse and help build a bond. Talk softly during grooming to enhance this trust, transforming a routine into a calming shared experience.
Clean the Stall
Maintaining a clean stall free of manure and bedding debris prevents foot problems and discomfort. Regular cleaning ensures the horse’s physical and mental well-being and expresses your gratitude. Keeping the environment clean shows care and respect.
Speak Calmly
Although horses cannot speak like humans, talking softly and confidently while approaching them is effective. Similar to talking to pets, it helps them recognize you as a calm and trustworthy leader. Use a quiet, decisive tone to communicate your intentions.
Spend More Time Together
In order to gain a horse’s trust, increasing the time spent together is effective. Just like with people, sharing experiences enhances understanding and confidence. Since riding isn’t always possible outside of lessons, here are some other ways to interact with horses.
Observe to Get Comfortable
You don’t have to touch the horse to interact; observing their behavior while they walk around or interact with other horses helps you understand their personality and habits. This helps the horse become more familiar with your presence, making them feel safer around you.
Go for a Walk
Walking with a horse without riding can strengthen your bond. Just as you walk your dog on a leash, lead the horse out of its stall with a bridle and take a leisurely stroll. This mutual time together helps both of you feel more comfortable and teaches the horse that you are the leader.
Give Treats
Offering treats or rewards helps build mutual trust. Always ask staff beforehand to ensure it’s safe. Favorite treats typically include carrots and apples, cut into manageable pieces. When feeding, approach slowly, speak softly, and place the treat in the horse’s mouth, avoiding biting your fingers. Keep playtime fun and safe by following the rules and respecting the animal’s health and safety.
Summary
Horses are gentle and social animals. When you earn their trust, riding becomes more enjoyable. Building trust with horses isn’t just about leading them during riding; it’s also about reassuring, spending time, and communicating in various ways even when not riding. This mutual understanding creates a stronger bond and ensures a more rewarding experience.